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Comment on 求人不如求己 by John

John — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 08:39:27 +0000

在兩間大學年代, 大學生是天之驕子, 放洋留學者更少之又少. 那是精英教育年代, 那年代的本地大學生是質數的保證, 同今天本地大學那種量產形根本完全不是那回事, 七＋年代中學畢業已經叫幾好學歴, 八＋年代中學畢業勉強可以做白領職員仔, 九＋年代中學畢業就已幾冇乜運行. 我唔係話外來人冇争食, 但問題重心在於學歴一直在depreciate
而學歴depreciation在全世界都在發生.

求人不如求己,當然用心良苦;但清楚自身定位,比求己更重要. 對於一少部份人,求己可以作為向上爬既推動力.但平凡的大多數受先後天所限,求己,很多時只是求不到

置於「協助大學生就業」4k一個月那種唔知想明益商家定好心幫倒忙既無腦笑話政策,如果咁樣叫賣帳,大家對賣帳定義分別太大, 就如美國政府對選民”賣帳”同香港政府對選民”賣帳”之分制

Comment on 求人不如求己 by Justin

Justin — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 07:43:31 +0000

小弟花了很多心機寫這篇文，無奈才疏學淺，才得出這篇「爛野」。

如果香港政府完全無需賣帳，就不會出現一系列「協助大學生就業」的政策。

閣下指週邊地區大學生的影嚮比本地學生倍增的問題細，我不同意。

我現身在美國，很多內地同學勤力聰穎，也具國際視野，中英文極好。他們均以香港為畢業後工作地區首選。也認識一些大機構的主管，他們說很多時候偏好選內地學生。他們正跟我們爭食。這是近十年中國小部份人富起來才出現的現象。

請問認為問題重心在哪？還請閣下賜教。

Comment on 求人不如求己 by John

John — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 07:20:17 +0000

嘩!出篇咁爛既嘢上報呀大佬!
美國政府仍要向選民(選票)賣帳, 香港政府何嘗向大學生賣帳? 兩件事
本質相差太大,比較根本無從說起
再講,未有八間(?)大學前一年有幾多大學畢業生, 之後又有幾多? 週邊地區大學生既影響一定比本地大學生陪增細
只可講意念良好, 但完全抓不到問題重心

Comment on 今是昨非 by leona

leona — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 04:41:08 +0000

Let go的重要性不下於「堅持不懈」呀！

Comment on 今是昨非 by Leon

Leon — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 18:18:35 +0000

人生的長度不足以讓很多事推倒重來

認字特警：係”重新”，唔係”從新”，係”題目”，唔係”提目”

Comment on 出貓唔好太高分 by Justin

Justin — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 21:52:03 +0000

Alienz: 睇下咩叫認真啦。「認真」完成，都係好。總之，大家on the level playground就好。

五點：我覺得，佢地今次，輸突。

Comment on 趕科場 by Justin

Justin — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 21:50:12 +0000

Eric: 我下年想去兩個conf，都係幾有趣的地方黎的。

Dra: 係呀。我都覺，好浪費油。其實，响美國開車，下下一開就一個鐘，都好浪費。

Geoffrey: 一年兩三個，還可以handle。

Random Coil: haha, I fly in econ class too. And I usually have to pick different airlines because of the time constraint…

五點：你個博，日日睇啦！

Comment on 趕科場 by Justin

Justin — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 21:47:27 +0000

haha. Yes. She reminds me that, the light that burns twice as bright burns for half as long.

Comment on 信 by Justin

Justin — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 21:20:17 +0000

係呀。以前响香港，收到呢啲信時，家人見到薄薄地，都已經知咩事。

Comment on 關於跑，我還想說的其實是 by Justin

Justin — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 21:18:57 +0000

好問題！

每見到一個我appreciate既人，就就想學佢。如果夾硬黎學，就會冇左自己。

Comment on 關於跑，我還想說的其實是 by Justin

Justin — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 21:00:31 +0000

Agree. Last time I ran with some fast people, they didn’t slow down for me. Seems like that is a common practise.

Comment on 今是昨非 by 五點

五點 — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 00:16:02 +0000

It doesn’t really matter.

Comment on 今是昨非 by Random Coil

Random Coil — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 21:13:31 +0000

I am a computer illiterate, so I know nothing about code. But 做engineering, I enjoy building everything from stretched. The process of learning and building is exciting.

I can understand the idea and benefit of staying in the comfort zone. Yet, staying in the comfort zone always means losing the chance of seeing something bigger and better…

No guts no glory man…

P.S. I love changes… But I do agree that you probably can’t have major changes in your career more than twice…

Comment on 今是昨非 by kklo

kklo — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 19:48:17 +0000

舊 code 的確係越睇越眼怨 =p

愈泥足深陷，推倒重來的機會成本亦愈大，所以經濟學 101 也說學歷(專業)愈高，職業流動性也就愈低

>>>時常問自己，每一個我所作過的決擇，是否最好的？
至少在你下決擇之時，就你當時所知的，應該已經是最好，除非閣下是在擲骰子

Comment on 今是昨非 by 老麥

老麥 — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 14:16:18 +0000

我都鐘意重頭寫，最恨執人舊code。做engineering 最享受就是創造的快感，不是嗎？

推倒重來，等於自廢武功、重新擔水、學另一套武功去打，一定是捱打。但難度是次要，由低做起的心理壓力，權力盡喪的無力感，才是大折磨。

我也中途出家兩次，如果你想轉行，又要有咁上下成就，兩次應該是極限 — 除非你未轉行時已 multi-threading。

政政…估你唔到！

Comment on 今是昨非 by Dra

Dra — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 10:54:16 +0000

有聽過(國際象棋)”棄后的時候”嗎?

Comment on 關於我 by Justin

Justin — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 08:33:58 +0000

I am not a talkative person indeed. I usually ignore ppl in msn~

Comment on 出貓唔好太高分 by 五點

五點 — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 00:51:16 +0000

所以話，贏不代表沒有輸．

Comment on 趕科場 by 五點

五點 — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 00:49:01 +0000

不知所謂的東西最好看，所以多Ｄ來睇我個博．

Comment on 出貓唔好太高分 by Alienz Thame

Alienz Thame — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 04:44:26 +0000

正如南早所言，佢地係要win-at-all-cost，但係人地嘅態度係「認真你就輸了」，真係唔係好明佢地點諗野

Comment on 關於我 by Random Coil

Random Coil — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 22:45:06 +0000

You put your MSN account here…

Would a lot of random people just add you?

Comment on 任何地方也像開四面台 by Random Coil

Random Coil — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 19:37:12 +0000

Hahaha…

I wished I could be there to see your ‘performance’… Your audience would remember you given your memorable presentation.
(Too bad we probably go to different conferences.)

I was remembered as the gal who SWEARED in my talk… (by accident of course) Well… I think leaving an impression, even a bad one, is better than no impression… hahaha…

Comment on 趕科場 by Random Coil

Random Coil — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 14:05:00 +0000

Folks, if you guys really want to fly… make sure you guys do it in 5points’ style!

http://boundaryinterfaces.wordpress.com/2009/11/22/frequent-flyer-the-poor-researcher-style/

Comment on 趕科場 by Geoffrey

Geoffrey — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 11:43:40 +0000

我都其實都幾種意去會議嘅，見識下其他嘢之餘，又可以名正言順行開下，甚至順便玩番下或去去其他地方（反正已經有人出咗機票），不過唔好太密就得啦，始終都要時間就下嘢。

Comment on 趕科場 by Dra

Dra — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 22:31:38 +0000

試過一天來回北京,間中一次都幾過穩…不過唔多環保(有時就是要見你的真身才能事成, 電話始終有局限)

Comment on 信 by eric

eric — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 12:26:29 +0000

而家通常喺電郵，以前nin下封信，厚啲嘅話通常喺得咗，薄chitchit嘅話就通常喺唔得啦。

Comment on 趕科場 by eric

eric — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 12:21:55 +0000

我就好怕飛，如果唔喺好嘅meeting，真喺費鬼事，好阻時間。除非喺有趣嘅地方啦，可以順便玩下。哈哈。

Comment on 趕科場 by koala

koala — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:15:48 +0000

That’s good for you. Also, I think a lot of Chinese still don’t realize that it’s not polite to speak Chinese when there are other folks, who don’t understand chinese, around.

To me, I quite enjoy hanging out with others with different culture backgrounds. 有時間出吓街啦, 唔好整係對住部電腦啦!

Sorry, c9就係咁, did I remind you of your mom?

Comment on 趕科場 by Justin

Justin — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:05:25 +0000

I have been trying pretty hard to hang out with foreign student. Probably having such foreign experience is more valuable that the Phd. I chose not to live with Chinese student, just to force myself to speak english.

These are quite hard and tiring tho.

Comment on 趕科場 by Justin

Justin — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:02:46 +0000

Yes. I always remind myself of this. Some of my classmates seemed to be worn out after 2-3 years, I have to make sure that I won’t.

Comment on 趕科場 by Justin

Justin — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:01:24 +0000

共勉之！

Comment on 趕科場 by koala

koala — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 20:34:59 +0000

都係趁未做c9 或’佬’時勤力D好D。第時有左小魔怪就好難再博。你有做運動, 身體應該okay。不過最好都係多D present, 多D 吹水, 唔好整係對住電腦就好。

有時見到好多唐人都覺得好可惜。整係做牛咁做. They never talked about what they are doing, and they can hardly develop any presentation skill. You never notice them in any seminars as they never asked any questions. Whenever there is food, they just rush to grab food and eat quietly either in a lonely corner, or gather with other chinese and speak Chinese only.

No wonder most people just regard them as good technicians, rather than a good scholars. I’m glad that you broke the Chinese/east Asian image last time in that conference.

Comment on 信 by Dra

Dra — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 10:34:27 +0000

我次次都話預左唔得, 但個種收收埋埋的失落其實更難頂

Comment on 趕科場 by Random Coil

Random Coil — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 07:47:36 +0000

‘每天在算，怎樣才能盡用自己’

Well, it is good to try your best and work super hard in grad school… Be warn. Don’t overwork yourself or you will burn out… I have seen that happened to a lot of people…

Comment on 趕科場 by 老子

老子 — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 06:04:13 +0000

有同感, 我也恨飛。

老子

Comment on 信 by Justin

Justin — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:15:18 +0000

True true true!

If I were not writing this article, I won’t look at it~

Will be staying in Rhode Island for at least one year.

Comment on 信 by Justin

Justin — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:13:30 +0000

而家開始練習唔俾希望自己，咁就冇咁易失望。

Comment on 信 by Random Coil

Random Coil — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:40:18 +0000

For a rejection letter, I won’t even bothering reading after the first few sentences.

Anyway… congratulations on the offer though. So where are you heading next?

Comment on 信 by Dra

Dra — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 14:32:26 +0000

拒絕信我收過無數咁多封, 佢越客氣, 我越沮喪

Comment on 關於跑，我還想說的其實是 by Echo

Echo — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 21:04:20 +0000

有趣有趣~回覆反而比文章精彩~!!學到野!
我想問:掛住比較,如何避免令自己成為另一個別人?